From what one reads in forums on relationships, it seems that many of the relationships manage to present more pain than pleasure after some time. The rise in divorce rates is an indicator to this. Why have relationship if that will give more ache than pleasure to both the partners? Do not you additionally ask this query? It's turning into so tough to maintain a wholesome relationship that one feels that he/she is coming from one office to another office. Where is the house with freedom, acceptance and love?
Relationships have gotten ego problems. Communication needs to be guarded. Wishes have to be taken care of. Sacrifices must be made. Individuality has to be killed. Compromises need to be made at each step. Even after making many compromises, the relationship may break. One feels damaged after making so much effort and discover that nothing was of any use. Plainly both most of us are getting caught up with improper partners or the break-ups occur very fast.
Once I watch children playing, birds flying and fish swimming so carelessly, I envy them. We adults have lost all the liberty due to relationships. Most of us at the very least have misplaced a lot that was individual. Why have relationships if they are expected to fail. Is it triumph of hope over actuality as somebody stated? Even after we look around and discover so many damaged relationships, we tend to type new. After having repeated break-ups, we wish more. Why can we do that, although we know that the result is extra pain? What drives us to type new relationships? Why not stay alone and enjoy the independence?