When he takes your hand and looks into your eyes does it still fill you with a lusty tingle? If your answer was 'well..' than at least know that you are not alone. Early on in most relationships when you are grasping and groping or sharing hot kisses all over the house you may not be considering how this hot-for-him, or her, stage may soon pass into a familiar and cozy relationship that may include more time spent on the computer as opposed to so much time in bed as it may have been early on.
Well before you decide it is your partners fault remember that relationships are a two way street. While you may decide your partner is entirely to blame for the situation you may find yourself it is very important to remember that a loss of affections or less attention is indeed a joint effort.
Speak Your Heart
Telling your partner what truly bothers you or hurts you is of utmost importance. You may be warmed by those moments when he says he has missed you, but it is very valuable to him to hear the same things as well. Do not assume your partner can read your mind, he will need to hear the way you feel about an issue if you want him to know.
Actions Speak Louder Than Words
As much as it is important to communicate verbally and openly, it is also important to do, and not just say you will. If you are expecting a certain treatment or affection than go out of your way as well to offer the same. Do not be afraid to read his body language or to display your own. Some find it very alluring to receive a non-verbal indication of their partners affections and can certainly appreciate a 'come on' that doesn't require groping hands or unnecessary talking.
Let Impulse Drive You
Let those wild and crazy ideas take form. If you want to pat him on the rear as he passes by, do it. Do not let those secondary and trouble causing issues to stop you from being impulsive with your physical actions, body language and other forms of teasing foreplay that you so enjoyed engaging in those first hot and heavy months of your relationship.